Joy Ndanu Munyao arrived at the gate of Miriti Girls’ High School. It was a bright, warm, sunny mid-morning. The weather, typical of the semi-arid vegetation in the area. She took in the fresh air that circulated her surroundings. Her round, wide and crystal clear eyes stared in wonder at the green gate in front of her.
Transfixed to the ground, she read the bold writings word by word in her little pumping heart. “MIRITI GIRLS’ HIGH SCHOOL, MOTTO: STRIVE TO EXCEL.” Joy wanted this moment to be memorable so she dreamily stared, mesmerized.
She was of medium height, with radiant brown skin and a slim figure that hang on dearly to her old tattered tunic from primary. It was the only one she had ever owned, had tried severally to mend it putting a patch here and there just to make it through the eight years of schooling. Grace had seen her through and here she was, ready to start the next chapter of her life. She smiled. A beautiful smile. The white pearls hidden behind her slightly parted lips revealed a coat of brown on the upper set.
“Ndanu we, ikalate tuikaselewe.” (Ndanu, hurry up lest we be late). Her father’s voice jolted her back to reality. She briskly followed him into the administration block where they were ushered into the principal’s office. She was asked to sit outside to let the grownups discuss the matter at hand. She knew that her father being just a poor farmer could not afford the tuition fee.
However, she had hope in him. He had never let his family down. He was not about to. Joy also trusted the father above to provide a breakthrough. She remembered one of her favorite tunes, “God will make a way where there seems to be no way….” She needed more than a way. A highway would be great!
Humming away, her mind drifted off to the events that had happened the past few months. She was the fifth born in a family of eight; three boys and five girls. Three of her elder siblings were girls. Two were already married and uneducated. It was not appalling. Culture dictated most of the things in her community. In this case, education was superfluous for girls!
“Why educate a girl? She will soon be married and take all that knowledge to her in-laws. You are sleeping on a goldmine! At this age your girls should have already made you wealthy. Not walking around the village doing odd jobs to get school fees!” The villages had mocked their father for taking her and her elder sister to school.
She had taken to her books with a lot of grit. She knew she was an average performer. She was in the same class with her sister who was a top performer. It was not easy. She applied herself accordingly to ensure she secured a chance in secondary school. When the results came out she had scored three hundred and twenty six marks out of the possible five hundred. Her sister had scored an outstanding three hundred and eighty five.
The December holidays swiftly came to an end. January came. The calling letters arrived. They had secured good schools. No penny was available to take them to form one. The villagers gossiped every time they passed. They waited in awe for their downfall.
“After all that time wasted learning how to read and count! Eeh! Haha! The only thing you will be counting are the days to your Ntheo (traditional wedding). Very soon you will be adding kids, filling the earth like the rest of us. Education does not make you a man. Asi!” their age mates boldly stated as they high-fived each other in open green envy whenever they went to the stream.
Their father finally convinced his brother who worked in the capital to lend him some money. Joy remembered vividly the day her uncle visited the home. She would never forget that day. How could she?!It was the day all her dreams and aspirations had been crushed and thrown to rot in the gutter.
“My brother, I only have enough money to educate one child for you. Judging by their performance, it is no doubt Jane is that child . Let Joy get married like the rest. After all, isn’t that what girls are destined to? The only reason I’m even willing to pay for Jane is because I owe you so much.”
Those words had hit like a grenade. All her dreams exploded. It was over! She was not going to secondary school! She was never going to be a Mathematics teacher! Never!
“Why was I born a girl? Why was I named Joy when all that feels my heart is sadness? Why me? God why? God are you really there?” she had soliloquized in between sobs. Two weeks later, she had half-heartedly bid her sister farewell. She had tried to be happy for her, sincerely. It was tough, she was human after all.
“You can come in now,” a soft female voice channeled her back to the present. She walked into the principal’s office timidly, hands behind her back, fingers crossed. This was the defining moment. She noticed a drawing hanging behind the principal’s chair. It was a picturesque description of the highlands.
“Please have a sit. Your father and I have agreed that he will be bringing some maize to the school as a substitute for fees. In the mean time, I will make sure you get the necessary essentials to be comfortable in class. I can see fire and determination in your eyes. Hold on to that. It will open doors for you.”
After her father had left, she was taken to class. Tears of joy filled her heart. For once, Joy was joyful. She promised herself to strive as much as possible towards excellence. After nagging her father for a whole term, it had finally paid off.
The sky was not the limit. It was the floor she’d tread upon. She wanted to be the first female Mathematics teacher in her community.
One day she would stand before young girls and tell them it was possible. Society did not have to dictate your life for you. You had a choice. She had made hers. She would be a living testimony, a ray of hope amidst the darkness. One day. Just one day.